They say divorce is like a death. You mourn and grieve. No matter the reason why the divorce is happening, abuse, adultery or just uncontested, it still hurts. You feel like a failure and you go through self-esteem issues. My day is approaching soon and I was thinking about how I want to show up for that big day. Do I wear black to let the grieving process take it’s course. Or do I show up in bright happy colors to celebrate me and move on with new goals, dreams and happiness coming my way. Staying focus on my well being, and my purpose. Tell me your thoughts my bff. Peace.